Stir is Match.com’s answer to taking online dating offline, offering a wide range of group activities to Match.com members around the country ranging from large-scale happy hours at popular venues, to more intimate events like tequila tastings and DJ lessons. Match.com’s Stir, offline singles events for Match.com members, is celebrating it’s one-year anniversary! In just …
Category Archive: Single Mom Dating
May
03
Flying By The Seat Of My Pants, Solo
Life isn’t just good right now, it’s fan-fucking-tastic! So fan-fucking-tastic I’ve had little time to blog because I am flying by the seat of my pants on the daily. But I’m happy about it, because being this busy means I’m making magic happen. For the first time in a long time I’m at a point …
Apr
22
Dating Mr. Douchetastic
I checked myself in the rear-view mirror one last time before deciding to apply more lipgloss. Normally I didn’t worry so much about bringing my A-game, but I’d been looking forward to this date for days. I’d met him on OKCupid a week earlier. Intrigued by his somewhat mysterious profile and abundance of what appeared …
Apr
11
Lessons In Online Dating: ‘Spin Your Web’ & Don’t Be A Lazy Ass
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: I’m the world’s worst dater. Especially when it comes to online dating. Still, I refuse to give up. And it’s not because I’m a glutton for punishment; it’s because I know everything else I’m actually good at in life took practice, patience and hard work. Though …
Apr
08
Shut Your Whore Mouth And Stop Obsessing Over Why He’s Not Into You
As a woman, I tend to spend a significant amount of time wondering why certain men that come into my life just aren’t that into me. Or if they are initially into me and things don’t work out I just HAVE to try to figure out why. Do you ever find yourself questioning what went …
Apr
07
Just Say No To Casual Sex And Friends With Benefits, If You’re Like Me
I looked in the mirror and barely recognized myself. “What the fuck were you thinking?” I asked my reflection, while I stared solemnly at the woman looking back at me. She was not who I wanted or planned to be, but after unintentionally running in another circle I’d found myself face to face with her …
Apr
02
Adventures In Friends With Benefits
Last week I asked all of you wonderful people to vote on what my next ridonkulous adventure should be – and I thought for sure you’d pick asking out Will Arnett because it seemed like the greatest chance for me to make an ass of myself. BUT INSTEAD you decided that it was more important …
Mar
28
Choose Mely’s Adventure
I was talking to a friend on the phone today about my current state of Meh. You see, I’ve felt like I’m at a bit of standstill the last few weeks – where everyday has felt almost exactly the same. There’s been little excitement in my personal and professional life and it’s left me a …
Mar
15
Why Age Difference Shouldn’t Matter And I’m Kind Of A Moron
Yesterday I wrote about my recent trip to Cougar Town. I made jokes about mine and my date’s age difference online, offline to my friends and family, and even to my actual date because jokes are often my way of hiding my insecurity – which makes me kind of a moron. That’s some self-depricating bullshit …
Mar
14
Cougar Town > Funky Town
Somehow we ended up holding hands for longer than I expected while we drank our beers and gazed at one another from across the table. Half of me wanted to take my hand back, and the other half wanted to close my eyes, enjoy the affection and never let go. What happened in reality was …























