Category Archive: The Fabulously Single Project

May
30

Bacon and New Beginnings

Sex Lies and Bacon-A Blogvel &Donuts

At first glance your mouth is probably watering over the box of donuts, but take a closer look. To the right. No, more to the right. Yea that’s it. Drool over the pure awesome that is a printed copy of my Sex, Lies & Bacon: A Blogvel eBook. If you’ve got $4.99 you can buy …

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May
18

When It Comes To My Love Life, Less Is More

Less Is More Bacon

For fifteen years my love life had been my only life. I entered into relationships with men and lost myself in them completely. It’s not that these men I fell in love with asked me to submit to them; it was just what came naturally to me being the people pleaser that I am. For …

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May
15

Dining Solo. Or How To Not Feel Like A Freak When Eating Out Alone.

Dining Solo With Bacon

Going out single can be a very scary thing, especially when it comes to dining solo. But as a single mom I’ve learned (and blogged) in the past, that a party of one is better than none. While there is sure to be a certain amount of awkwardness the first time you decide to eat out …

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Apr
24

Kelly Bensimon And I Can Make You Hot

Kelly Bensimon & I

I need to start this post by saying that never in my wildest dreams did I think I would ever be in the same room as Kelly Bensimon, let alone get invited to speak with her, one-on-one four, for nearly forty-five minutes. Yet there I found myself in the Penthouse Suite of the San Carlos …

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Apr
19

Look Who’s Happy Now

Happiness

I had a realization this morning. I’ve become one of those happy people. Three years ago I hated everyone and everything, including myself. I was consumed with darkness, sadness and regret; terrified of all the things I was forced to face alone after my ex cheated on me and left me a single mom; filled …

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Apr
16

Temporary Insanity. Or Why This Single Mom By Circumstance Might Someday Be A Single Mom By Choice

Bacon Baby

Up until last week I’d been content as a single mother of one. When people asked me if I planned to have more children I’d confidently said no hell no. Maybe it was because I grew up as an only child myself and saw no problem with my son not having siblings. Or maybe it …

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Mar
30

…And That’s Why I’m Single

Yes I'm single & BACON copy

I’ve been single for three years now. I grew up most of my life thinking I needed the attention of a man and to be part of a couple in order to prove my worth as a woman, but now I know better. Now I know that being single doesn’t mean I’m less of a …

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Mar
29

Working Girl

Working Girl

I caught the 8:45am bus into NYC today for work. It was the second time this week that I traveled to the city for something work-related and I couldn’t be happier about it. I guess I should preface by saying I recently changed jobs. It was the first time I was ever offered a job …

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Mar
20

A Party Of One Is Better Than None

Melysa Heart

I got up yesterday planning to catch a bus into New York City for my new job, but fate stepped in with other plans. I would makeout with fate right now if I could for the gift it gave me. It had been a LONG ASS TIME since this single mom had a day without …

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Mar
11

The Woman I’ve Become

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I stepped my high-heeled feet off the bus at Port Authority that morning with butterflies in my stomach; sure of where I needed to go and what time I needed to arrive, but uncertain of where life was going to take me afterwards. I held my purse tightly in one hand and a set of …

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